Struggling with a relationship issue?
Do these feelings whirl round in your thoughts?
- I really don’t want to live with this for another 20 years. Something needs to change, soon.
- Why can’t he/she see it is their fault?
- I can’t seem to explain to her/him how I fee.
- I feel I give everything and get nothing in return
- How are our relationship difficulties affecting the children?
You are not alone, these are common reactions when relationships run into problems. I help people from all walks of life in a troublesome relationship or just recently ended a relationship with someone that you really care about. Believe me, there’s a way through these difficult times.
Helena said – ‘I have been working with Anita to overcome challenges I have faced in my past and present. This was something I was very hesitant to do at first … but I can honestly say it was one of the best decisions I have made.
I want to change my relationship for the better, but how?
These may be the thoughts and questions you may have running through your head about love and your relationship. These relationship worries are common and shared by many people. You may now be feeling that the time has come to take action to improve things, and counselling is an excellent way to proceed. Let me explain why counselling is a powerful way forward, and commend you on your courage to decide to look for a positive change.
About Anita
Anita Jackson is a trained consultant and has a PGDip Psychosynthesis Counselling and Teacher/Dip Imagework. She is a member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP).
Struggling with a relationship issue?
for a free 10 minute discussion about it and what to do about it. (Or, send me a discreet message from your device)
Who makes the first step?
The person that gets in touch with me often considers it is the other who is at fault, because they seem okay, and the caller is not. It is normally the woman, although occasionally men make the first move to get help. Sometimes men come to me because they are told to come to me by their partner. I can successfully work with one person, though it is better if both of you come.
I will work hard to build a positive rapport and trust with you. My sessions are conducted in a safe and confidential environment, and I promise to offer you my empathy, genuineness, and understanding. You will find my counselling genuine, safe and therapeutic, and you’ll soon start making different decisions about your relationship. This comes from within, and I will help these decisions surface for you.
Two couples’ experiences
And this example of a recent client, Kayleigh, talking about her daughter and then her partner:
“I have been working with Anita to overcome challenges I have faced in my past and present. This was something I was very hesitant to do at first as I felt embarrassed about getting help but I can honestly say it was one of the best decisions I have made.
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Helena
July 2021
“Mine and her relationship has also greatly improved, well as much as it can with a 13 year old and Jack and I talk and communicate so much better and that is undoubtedly due to the work we did with you.”
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Kayleigh
Winter 2018/9
Dealing with relationships’ riskier times
I often find more people come to me for counselling after Christmas, or after a holiday. When we spend 24 hours a day together over an extended time, there are huge challenges that strain any relationship, the extra bits come to the surface. But if we understand why this happens, I will help you see how to effectively deal with the strains from this occasion and avoid future ones.
Sometimes, inevitably counselling will uncover that one party really does want to leave. I make it really clear in the beginning, that unless you care about the other person and that you and the other person really do want to improve your relationship, then you are wasting your money and time. However, much more importantly, if the counselling does turn you both round, think about what has been avoided.
A Consultant’s Diary
You are not alone, these are common reactions when relationships run into problems.
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Testimonial
“Just to say a massive thank you for all your support, help and guidance as my counsellor during this challenging life experience. Has been a massive contribution to getting me back-on-track; and to enhancing my learnings to support my future and my decisions that I may take….”
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David, Nov 2014
“Just to say a massive thank you for all your support, help and guidance as my counsellor during this challenging life experience. Has been a massive contribution to getting me back-on-track; and to enhancing my learnings to support my future and my decisions that I may take….”
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David, Nov 2014
“Just to say a massive thank you for all your support, help and guidance as my counsellor during this challenging life experience. Has been a massive contribution to getting me back-on-track; and to enhancing my learnings to support my future and my decisions that I may take….”
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David, Nov 2014
Time to act
Don’t hold back. It is time now to take your first decision to powerfully rebuild your relationship with your partner. Find the courage to decide to write to me below to arrange a 10 minute private conversation
A Consultant’s Diary
You are not alone, these are common reactions when relationships run into problems.
People often ring me between 9:30am to lunchtime when they have a private moment. Let us both see how I will help you and your partner take the first powerful step towards changing your future love and relationship for the better.
